ALONE IN THE CROWD !!
One may feel lonely in crowd for he/she might be introvert and don’t like crowd much.
Or one may feel lonely if he/she thinks that they don’t fit in the crowd. That the crowd is not of their type and they have trouble mixing in the crowd. Feeling lonely in the crowd occasionally may be cause of your mind being obsessed with something or if you are looking for someone particular in the crowd.
Feeling lonely is more than just unpleasant for those who yearn to be surrounded by warm relationships—it is a health hazard. Numerous studies show that loneliness reduces fruit-fly lifespans, increases the chances of mice developing diabetes, and causes a host of adverse effects in people, including cardiovascular disease, obesity and weakening of the immune system. Simply being surrounded by others is no cure. In people, the mere perception of being isolated is more than enough to create the bad health effects. However, in spite of its significant impact, precious little is known about how loneliness moves through communities.
Often loneliness causes people to act towards others in a less generous and more negative fashion. As someone becomes lonely, he is more likely to interact with his friends negatively, and they are then more likely to interact with other friends negatively. If these interactions are repeated, the ties of friendships fray and people become lonelier and more isolated. The effects were more noticeable among friends than family, and stronger among women than men. The researchers argue that this is because the costs of abandoning relationships are lower for friends than they are for family members, and because women look to friends for emotional and social support more than men do. When they fail to receive it, they are more likely to become lonely.
This photoshoot is captures the devil who grows inside us with a continuous support of our loneliness and us being an introvert.
Loneliness can be different for different people, some don’t feel lonely around a crowd of unfamiliar faces say Railway station, Airports, Shopping Malls etc. but instead on a team outing or team lunch, with people they meet daily and work with. Some feel lonely when they have to be friendly and informal with a group of colleagues which they really not feel connected with. Some feel Lonely when they don’t get amused at the jokes others crack in a group and all laugh, because they find the joke lame. All these time they feel lonely as they don’t enjoy that company for leisure. All these time people do become obsessed with a desire to have a better company to open up to.
All we have to do is except the present and gel with the crowd. Every person has his own charm. Engage yourself with people, get close to them, discover their best and ignore the rest. In the process you will get over your devil born because of the loneliness hidden inside you. So break the barriers make friends, take rightful interests in conversation happening. Participate in the happiness of your colleagues in office and kill this devil named “LONELINESS”.
Alone in the crowd